| | Eye Contact ( shisen o awasu )
Are Japanese offended by direct eye contact in certain situations? Yes! I can tell you that Japanese don't look at your eyes all the time while talking. Personally I don't hesitate to keep eye contact while I am listening and talking to someone. However, I sometimes feel that they are uncomfortable to keep eye contact for a long time. Some people try to look away or down at some points...  Suppose a teacher is angry at you and giving a lecture, I would guess you would look at the teacher, right? If your father is mad at you and if you don't look at him, he might say " Look at me!" In Japan, if someone is, scolding you or reprimanding you, you should never stare at him. In that case, most Japanese look at a lower point with their head down in order not to make him more angry. If you look him in the eye, it is considered confrontational. Some foreigners living in Japan say that is one of the most surprising things in Japan. What do you think? Have a look at this picture, this is a common scene of it between a father and his daughter. Both of them don't see each other. Well, there must be some different opinions about it from your experiences. I think Japanese are nodding their heads or saying "hai, hai " or "mmm" instead of making eye contact. Maybe Japanese are shy in that way. |
| | Posted 12/22/2006 12:21 AM - 392 Views - 16 eProps - 9 comments
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